Sometimes there is a temptation to experience something we've never done before. Especially if it's something mysterious and daring. Just like BOUDOIR PHOTOSHOOT (lol, you are at my webpage, what were you expecting hah).
So it was a great coincidence for me when I was invited to shoot an event I've never heard about before, but the description sounded attractive. It was organised by DAGuildGallery in Shanghai.
Before I continue, let me clarify what Shibari is.
The origin of Shibari comes from Hojo-jutsu, the martial art of restraining captives.
It was a chamber event. Very cosy, atmospheric, intriguing. I was the only one moving around the room, sometimes lying next to the models or somewhere under the table just to frame the picture nicely. What mattered to me was the facial expression of the models - it was descriptive.
At the moment I could just assume how they felt, cause I've never tried it before myself. Does it feel like stretching, a massage? Or were they getting cramps and pain from the rope?
So before going to shoot the second event, I've tried shibari myself. The private one, not the performance one (They have a different approach. The first was more for feeling it and the second one for showing).
The main thing about it - as a "bunny" (the one who has been tied up) is you give up all control. You can't move, can't scratch your nose if its itchy. You have only one choice - observe everything your body is going through. That's the easiest thing to do if you want to be present and in a moment. If it hurts a little bit, and one shoulder blade pokes the other one for example - it's even easier. You are forced to feel it.
During one session I felt exited, scared, horny, almost crying, sweating, cold sweating, grateful and eventually super relaxed. It looks weird and scary for some - but its just one more form you can use for self-discovery and relaxation.
Enjoy viewing the pictures and let me know if you'd like to attend this event next time!